Double Denim, Cashmere jumper

Why I wore this cute double denim outfit. I was having a really bad day a few days ago. It was like my brain was having a breakdown. My mind flooded with all these sad memories and I felt blue. One particular memory came to mind. That of when I had very little.

The memory

Ā Since travelling to Cameroon in August to bury my grandmother, a lot changed inside me. As a matter of fact, I have not found the courage to talk about my grandma as I keep thinking I will see her in December as I always try to.

At a very early age, I was taught hard work. It was not a choice, life threw it at me and I had to embrace the challenge and move on. Again, I learned to multi-task, survive through the worse and make the most of what I had. I was not a privileged kid growing up. I had very little clothes, sometimes no shoes. Nevertheless, I had my grandmother.

Ā I still remember how I use to borrow clothes from my cousin Mary-Anne who was lucky enough to have hand-me-downs. Nothing was handed down to me. It was the case of squeezing water out of a rock at all times.

Ā Ā Ā Ā The Double Denim

A very emotional day + a sad face + a very important lunch date = fashion hazard. I had to find a way to snap out of memory lane and get ready for my date. I needed to be on my best behaviour.

After so many tries and trust me there were many, the moment I wore the double denim I suddenly felt happy, alive and free. It was funny how the solution to a blue day was a blue dress. What are the odds?

I knew I had made the right choice because I got compliments throughout the day and I just had to take a couple of fab pictures and share with the MammyPi fam.

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The crop denim top and a denim skirt are an ASOS buy and I love how luxe the look is. Since the weather was quite chilly, I added this H&M grey jumper for the warmth.
Lessons Learnt

My sad days were tough but they were okay. My grandmother was there to feed me. I knew no better and I expected nothing more out of life. Still, at the back of my head, I knew I wasnā€™t going to suffer for long. I promised myself things will change and I will one day have everything I wanted as a child.

These days, when I lack motivation, I flash back to when I was six, the things I was put through, I get up, dress up and make things happen. In life, I have learned the importance of being true to you at all times. Do not let people write your story for you. Donā€™t let people spring in from anywhere and try to tell your story. Have faith because someday, you will have all you have ever wanted and more.

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Shop The Look

Denim Crop Top

ASOS|LIPSY |Ā Luxury Garage Sale

Denim Midi Skirt

ASOS |MANGO | RIVER ISLAND |

ACCESSORIES

ASOS | LOUBOUTIN SHOES

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